Reasons Why Men Cheat

Although many people have argued that it is in the DNA of men to cheat on their partners which is arguable. There are also contributing factors that can make a man take such a roller coaster journey without limit. Some of which are caused by the partners/wife themselves. I’m not holding brief for the men, but it is true. Check out some of the reasons below;

Ø Boredom: Sometimes the routine of marital life is tedious and boring. These set of men find it easier to get the necessary sparks outside rather than fixing their homes. Some women shift attention from the man when they start having kids and most times blow-up in size and some men don’t talk to their wife even if they don’t find them attractive  because they don’t want to offend them, hence they seek succour outside. 

Ø Fracas in The House:  When there is a fight in the house, men deal with this situation differently, some deal with the issues by fleeing while other waits to fight. The fleeing one most times seeks comfort in the lapse of other women. 

Ø Men Love To Experiment Sexually

Sex is an important part of marriage. Many men prefer to have empty stomach and have empty balls than have filled stomach and filled balls. The rule is, keep his stomach full and his balls empty. Ladies, please try much sex styles as possible, don’t just give missionary style and think your man will not look outside to get other styles from willing ladies.

Ø Cheating men are Emotionally Disgruntled

Most men consider it weak to ask for a pat on the back, which is why their emotional needs are often overlooked. Sometimes the couple may not be compatible so however much the wife may do, the man will always find something to complain about. Sometimes the woman he cheats with is his co-worker or boss, someone who praises him, looks up to him, and compliments his efforts. That's another reason why it's so critical that he feel valued at home.

Ø Upbringing/Experience

Some men are brought up by father who cheated on their mother hence, they see it as normal. This somewhere gives them a message that it is okay to cheat, even though deep inside they know this is wrong.

Ø Revenge Mission

Some men also take revenge with their cheating wives, by having multiple relationships themselves. Research has shown that women forgive easily when their husband cheats, while men find it difficult to forgive their women when they do same.

Ø  Not Feeling Wanted By His Wife

Some women are in the habit of not expressing the fact that they need their husband, the man in his quest to feel needed goes out to seek attention from other women outside, they look out for some other woman, who can understand them and make them feel special. And when they are showered with attention, which they haven't received in a very long time in their marriage, they throw their hands in the air and get deep into the new hot and happening relationship.

In summary, when situation like this is happening in your home, all you need to do to remedy the situation is to take your mind back to when you met your spouse, the reason you decided to settle for him/her and how you guys were into each other so much. Then you begin to date again along that line and those experiences.