Tuesday, August 11, 2015

Ladies:Why You Keep Dating The Wrong Guy!




Television and Soap Operas now determine women dress sense, look, eating habit and many more.
Ladies dress like their screen idols without putting into consideration that the so called idols mostly dress the way they do for shows and the screen because that is what pay their bills.

On the other hand, gullible ladies want to look like their screen idols even during their normal day activities without setting boundaries and at the same time they want a decent guy to approach them so they can settle down! .The adage “dress the way you wants to be addressed” cannot be truer in this case. If you attract a guy with your exposed body, his interest ends when his yearning to have a taste of the body is met.
Good guys see beyond your physique, in as much as physical beauty attract good guys, what keep them is your inner beauty which consist of –Character, attitude and general conduct.
Are you still wondering why you keep attracting the wrong guy?  It is because your appearance is giving you away to the wrong guys. Don’t get me wrong, you don’t have to look like a female ISIS fighter for you to look decent, everything must be done in moderation. You must position yourself in a way that you look decent and at the same time sexy so as to attract the right kind of guys.
Be at the right place, you don’t have to be in the church all the time or in the club always, learn to live a balanced life and I must say, clubs and churches are not actually the best of places to meet a partner. In the club, most people are under the influence of something while in church, everybody pretend to be saint. I always advice you meet a partner in a neutral environment where individual can show their real self. Don’t get it twisted, one can meet a partner in Club or Church but, relationship from these two places are most times not real.
A little tips for you;
Don’t frown, put up smile this is because nothing pisses a good guy off than a sad face lady. Smile is the first attraction. Be polite always even if you don’t like the guy at first, you never can tell what will happen next. Also, for you to attract a good guy, you have to horn your skills, be good at what you are doing and try to know a little about everything-guys love intelligent and eloquent ladies.
Learn to say thank you at all times, it is a sign that you appreciate little things. No matter how bad a guy is, he will always appreciate a lady who say thank you it works like magic. Don’t make demands at every opportunity even if he gives you the go ahead, he might be testing your level of prudence.
Finally, it is important to know what one wants in life and in a partner. Don’t do things because it is reigning; go for it if it is what you want to do.


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